ينبغي للمرأة العاقلة إذا وجدت زوجاً صالحاً يلائمها أن تجتهد في مرضاته وتجتنب كل ما يؤذيه فإنها متى آذته أو تعرضت لما يكرهه أوجب ذلك ملالته وبقي ذلك في نفسه فربما وجد فرصة
فتركها أو آثر غيرها فإنه قد يجد وقد لا تجد هي ومعلوم أن الملل للمستحسن قد يقع فكيف للمكروه
أحكام النساء لإبن الجوزي الباب الرابع والستون في وجوب طاعة الزوج وحقه على المرأة
A rational woman, if she finds a good husband suitable for her, ought to strive to please him and avoid everything that harms him; for indeed when she harms him or gets into things that he dislikes, this necessarily irritates him and sticks in his mind. And perhaps he may find the opportunity and leave her or prefer someone other than her, and indeed perhaps he will find this but she will not. It is well-known that it is possible to grow weary from something agreeable, so how much more from something disagreeable.
Ibn Al-Jawzi, Ahkam Al-nisaa [Rulings for Women], Chapter sixty-four: regarding the duty to obey the husband, and his rights over the woman