{ Oh you who have believed! Indeed among your wives and your children are enemies of yours, so beware of them; but if you pardon, and are forbearing, and forgive, indeed Allah is forgiving, merciful } Al-taghabun 14

Indeed there are some wives who act in hostility by their groanings, who quarrel with the men and trouble them, and there are some children who act in hostility towards their fathers, are disobedient to them, and make them choke on agony and distress. { So beware of them } : “them” refers to the enemy, or to all wives and children, that is, when you are aware that they are not without enemies among them. So be on guard against them, and do not feel like you are safe from their aggravations and their evil.