عن ابي برزة الاسلمي أن جليبيباً كان امرأ يدخل على النساء يمر بهن و فقلت لامرأتي لا يدخل اليوم عليكم جليبيب فإنه إن دخل عليكم لأفعلن ولأفعلن قال وكانت الأنصار إذا كان لاحدهم أيم لم يزوجها حتى يعلم هل لنبي الله ﷺ فيها حاجة أم لا فقال رسول الله ﷺ لرجل من الأنصار زوجني ابنتك قال نعم وكرامة يا رسول الله ونعمة عين فقال إني لست أريدها لنفسي قال فلمن يا رسول الله ﷺ قال لجليبيب فقال يا رسول الله أشاور أمها فأتى أمها فقال رسول الله ﷺ يخطب ابنتك فقالت نعم ونعمة عين فقال إنه ليس يخطبها لنفسه إنما يخطبها لجليبيب فقالت أجليبيب إنيه أجليبيب إنيه لا لعمر الله لا تزوجه فلما أراد أن يقوم ليأتي رسول الله ﷺ فيخبره بما قالت أمها قالت الجارية من خطبني اليكم فأخبرتها أمها قالت أتردون على رسول الله ﷺ أمره إدفعوني إليه فإنه لن يضيعني فإنطلق أبوها إلى رسول الله ﷺ فقال شأنك بها فزوجها جليبيباً
تفسير إبن كثير الاحزاب ٣٦
Abu Barza Al-Aslami related that Julaibib was a man who went in to see women – he would pass by them and flirt with them. I said to my woman: Do not let Julaibib come in to see you all today, for indeed if he comes in to see you, I will surely do this and that. He said: The Ansar, whenever any of them had a marriageable girl, would not marry her off until they confirmed – did the Prophet of Allah (SAW) have a need for her or not? The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said to one of the Ansari men: Give your daughter in marriage to me. He said: Yes, with honour and pleasure, oh Messenger of Allah. But He continued: Indeed I do not want her for myself. The man said: Then for who, oh Messenger of Allah? He said: For Julaibib. The man said: Oh Messenger of Allah, let me consult with her mother. And so he went to her mother and said: The Messenger of Allah (SAW) has proposed marriage to your daughter. She said: Sure, with all pleasure. But he said: Indeed He has not proposed to her for himself; He has proposed to her for Julaibib. And she said: Julaibib? No way! Julaibib? No way! No, as Allah lives, she will not marry him. And when the man wanted to get up and go to the Messenger of Allah (SAW) to tell him what her mother had said, the girl said: Who has asked you to marry me? Her mother told her. And she said: Are you refusing the Messenger of Allah’s (SAW) orders? Give me away to him, for indeed nothing bad will happen to me. So her father went out to the Messenger of Allah (SAW) and said: Have your way with her. And He married her to Julaibib.
Tafsir Ibn Kathir, Al-ahzab 36