ينبغي للمرأة أن تعرف أنها كالمملوك للزوج فلا تتصرف في نفسها ولا في ماله إلا بإذنه وتقدّم حقه على حق نفسها وحقوق أقاربها وتكون مستعدة لتمتعه بها بجميع أسباب النظافة ولا تفتخر عليه بجمالها ولا تعيبه بقبيح إن كان فيه
أحكام النساء لإبن الجوزي الباب الرابع والستون في وجوب طاعة الزوج وحقه على المرأة
A woman ought to know that she is as one owned by the husband; she must not act regarding herself or regarding his money without his permission. She is to put his rights before her own rights and the rights of her family, and she is to be prepared for him to enjoy her on all grounds of cleanliness. She is not to flaunt her beauty with him, and not ridicule him about anything ugly that there might be in him.
Ibn Al-Jawzi, Ahkam Al-nisaa [Rulings on Women], Chapter sixty-four: regarding the duty to obey the husband, and his rights over the woman