قال إبن عباس أتت إمرأة من خثعم إلى رسول الله ﷺ فقالت اني امرأة أيم وأريد أن أتزوج فما حق الزوج قال إن من حق الزوج على الزوجة إذا أرادها فراودها عن نفسها وهي على ظهر بعيرٍ لا تمنعه ومن حقه أن لا تعطي شيئاً من بيته إلا بإذنه فإن فعلت ذلك كان الوزر عليها والأجر له ومن حقه أن لا تصوم تطوعاً إلا بإذنه فإن ف علت جاعت وعطشت ولم يُتقبل منها وإن خرجت من بيتها بغير إذنه لعنتها الملائكة حتى ترجع إلى بيته أو تتوب
إحياء علوم الدين للغزالي كتاب آداب النكاح الباب الثالث في آداب المعاشرة وما يجري في دوام النكاح والنظر فيما على الزوج وفيما على الزوجة القسم الثاني النظر في حقوق الزوج عليها
Ibn ‘Abbas said: A woman from the tribe of Khath’am came to the Messenger of Allah (SAW) and said: I am a widow and want to marry; what is the husband’s right? He said: Indeed it is the husband’s right over the wife, whenever he wants her and makes advances to her, and she is on the back of a camel, that she does not refuse him. And it is his right that she not give away anything of his house except with his permission; if she does this, the offense is on her and the recompense is his. And it is his right that she not fast voluntarily except with his permission; if she does this she will hunger and thirst and it will not be accepted of her. And if she goes out of her house without his permission, the angels curse her until she returns to his house or repents.
Al-Ghazali, Ihyaa ‘Ulum Al-deen [Revival of the Religious Sciences], The book of proper conduct in marital relations, Section three: concerning proper conduct in intimacy, what should be observed for the duration of marital relations, and consideration of the obligations of the husband and the obligations of the wife, Part two: consideration of the husband’s rights over her