قال الحسن والله ما أصبح رجل يطيع امرأته فيما تهوى إلا كبّه الله في النار وقال عمر رضي الله عنه خالفوا النساء فإن في خلافهن البركة وقد قيل شاوروهن وخالفوهن وقد قال عليه السلام تَعِسَ عبد الزوجة
إحياء علوم الدين للغزالي كتاب آداب النكاح الباب الثالث في آداب المعاشرة وما يجري في دوام النكاح والنظر فيما على الزوج وفيما على الزوجة
Al-Hasan said: I swear by Allah, if any man gets to the point of obeying his woman in what she desires, Allah will turn him upside-down into hellfire. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Dispute with women, for indeed there is blessing in disputing with them. It has been said: Seek the advice of women and then disagree with them. And He (peace be upon him) said: He who is a slave to his wife is ruined.
Al-Ghazali, Ihyaa ‘Ulum Al-deen [Revival of the Religious Sciences], The book of proper conduct in marital relations, Section three: concerning proper conduct in intimacy, what should be observed for the duration of marital relations, and consideration of the obligations of the husband and the obligations of the wife