وأما قول القائل إن شهوة المرأة تزيد على شهوة الرجل فليس كما قال والشهوة منبعها الحرارة وأين حرارة الأنثى من حرارة الذكر ولكن المرأة لفراغها وبطالتها وعدم معاناتها لما يشغلها عن أمر شهوتها وقضاء وطرها يغمرها سلطان الشهوة ويستولي عليها ولا يجد عندها ما يعارضه بل يصادف قلباً فارغاً ونفساً خالية فيتمكن منها كل التمكن فيظن الظان أن شهوتها أضعاف شهوة الرجل وليس كذلك ومما يدل على هذا أن الرجل إذا جامع امرأته أمكنه أن يجامع غيرها في الحال وكان النبي ﷺ يطوف على نسائه في الليلة الواحدة وطاف سليمان عليه السلام على تسعين إمرأة في ليلة ومعلوم أن له عند كل إمرأة شهوة وحرارة باعثة على الوطء والمرأة إذا قضى الرجل وطرها فترت شهوتها وانكسرت نفسها ولم تطلب قضاءها من غيره في ذلك الحين فتطابقت حكمه الشرع والقدر والخلق والأمر ولله الحمد
إعلام الموقعين عن رب العالمين لإبن قيم الجوزية فصل شهوة الرجل أقوى من شهوة المرأة
Regarding someone who says that certainly the sex drive of women exceeds the sex drive of men: it is not as he says. For the sex drive comes out of a burning passion; and where is the passion of the female against the passion of the male? For a woman – due to her unoccupation, her idleness, and her lack of endurance for what drives her to the issue of her sex drive and fulfilling her desire – the power of the sex drive fills her and takes control of her; and nothing is found in her to oppose it, but rather this corresponds to an empty heart and a vacant soul. And this becomes deeply consolidated in her, and one might deem that her sex drive is several times more than the man’s sex drive; but this is not so. Part of what attests to this is that when a man has sex with his woman, it is possible for him to promptly have sex with another woman. The Prophet (SAW) would go around to His women in one night; Sulaiman (peace be upon him) went around to ninety women in one night, and it is known that with each woman his sex drive and passion were aroused for intercourse. A woman’s sex drive – if a man fulfills her desire – weakens, and her soul becomes broken, and she will not look to fulfill it with another man at that time. And so the Law, the high standing, the creation, and the authority are all in accord with His ruling; and praise be to Allah.
Ibn Qayyim, I’lam Al-muwaqqi’in 'an Rabb Al-'Alamin [Notifications of those who write for the Lord of the Worlds], Section: the sex drive of men is stronger than the sex drive of women