When a man has fulfilled his desire, he should take his time with his wife until she also fulfills her craving, for indeed her ejaculation may perhaps be delayed; if he arouses her desire, and then neglects her, it will cause harm to her. A difference in the nature of the ejaculation necessarily leads to discord whenever the husband reaches it first. But harmony at the time of ejaculation is more pleasing for her, since the man is not occupied with himself at her expense, for indeed perhaps she may be shy.