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عن ابي سلمة أن أبا هريرة حدثهم أن النبي ﷺ قال لا تُنكح الأيّم حتى تُستأمر ولا تنكح البكر حتى تستأمر قالوا يا رسول الله وكيف اذنها قال أن تسكت
صحيح البخاري كتاب النكاح
Abu Salamah related that Abu Huraira told them that the Prophet (SAW) said: A widow is not given to have marital relations [nikah] until she has been consulted about it, and a virgin is not given to have marital relations until she has been consulted about it. And some people said: Oh Messenger of Allah, how does she give permission? He said: By not saying anything.
Sahih Al-Bukhari, The book of marital relations
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